(Sex) Watching Porn = Gay Marriage Support?

Posted on December 25, 2012 by Butterfly

Huffington Post reports that Mark Regnerus, you know the ~~dufus~~ guy who published a report stating that children of gay parents are doomed forever; is now saying that if a heterosexual (straight) male watches porn then they are inclined to support gay (homosexual) marriage equality.

Regnerus states, and I quote:

(porn) “undermines the concept that in the act of sexual intercourse, we share our ‘body and whole self … permanently and exclusively’” and “reinforces the idea that people can share their bodies but not their inmost selves, and that they can do so temporarily and (definitely) not exclusively without harm.”

He also states that porn does not “discriminate” or rank one kind of sex act over another and therefore viewers are treated to a “veritable fire-hose dousing of sex-act diversity” and end up believing that sex has nothing to do with “marital meaning.”

Regnerus reveals that “of the men who view pornographic material ‘every day or almost every day,’ 54 percent ‘strongly agreed’ that gay and lesbian marriage should be legal, compared with around 13 percent of those whose porn-use patterns were either monthly or less often than that.”

What say ye, street fam? Porn = Gay or nah?

(Sex) Side Chick Commandments

Posted on November 19, 2012 by Butterfly

Side Chick Commandments. Yep, someone went there. I spotted this a couple of months ago on the power98 website. How does these commandments measure up in the real world? You know, where Tasha and Yashika reside and will cut you for your transgressions.

I. Thou shalt not put any other partners before me.
Yes, I understand that it’s hypocritical for someone in a relationship to ask their side person to remain faithful, but you knew what you were walking into when you signed up for this. They just need you to stand by them while I “work things out” with their main squeeze. Just a few more years and they’ll be all yours… yeah, right.

II.Thou shalt not keep any images or video footage of us together—ever.
The key to keeping this thing going is no evidence, so there will be no pictures taken or sex tapes recorded. Denying everything only works when there’s no proof. Plus, in the event that things go south your jump-off should not have anything that he or she can black mail you with later.

III. Thou shalt not use the L-word in vain.
This rule is so underrated, but if you follow it things will be less complicated. Do not under any circumstances tell your jump-off you love them unless you really mean it. If said under false pretenses you’re just leaving yourself open for a world of hurt when the truth comes out.

IV. Remember the special days and stay in your place.
When someone’s in a real relationship—you know, one with a real title like BF/GF or husband/wife—there are certain commitments that need to be maintained, like anniversaries, holidays and Valentine’s Day. Listen closely, those days are not for you so don’t call, don’t text, don’t email and definitely don’t start no drama, just stay in your lane and wait until the coast is clear.

V. Thou shalt not meet my father and mother.
Besides, meeting mom and dad is way too personal, especially if they know about your main squeeze. You don’t need your parents asking too many questions or accidentally slipping up and leaking information. When it comes to friends, you’re bestie can be your confidante but as a rule the less people that know about your side chick/dude the better.

VI. Thou shalt not kill.
No, seriously, that’s not cool. Don’t ever go all psycho and try to pull out knives and guns because you can’t have the person all to yourself. Physical violence (against yourself or others) only makes things worse, so control your anger issues and understand that we all can’t have what we want when we want it.

VI. Thou shalt not stalk.
Not only is it annoying, it’s not at all attractive. Nothing turns off someone’s sexiness factor quicker than being desperate or a bug-a-boo. With that said don’t ever pop up unannounced and definitely don’t try to be social media friends or follow each other on Twitter. The only communication side chicks/dudes get is direct contact, everything else leaves a paper trail and/or invades the other person’s personal space.

VIII. Thou shalt not steal.
In the event that someone is sloppy enough to bring their jump-off into their home, it’s with the understanding that he/she will not take any souvenirs with them. The same goes for a hotel/motel excursion also, in that going through someone’s purse/wallet while they’re in the shower is a major violation. This works in the reverse as well in that a jump-off should not leave behind any clues of their presence (i.e. panties/boxers, hair, condoms/pads in trash, etc.).

IX. Thou shalt not lie on me or to me.
Living a double life is hard enough but to have the one person you’ve been real with from the beginning turn their back on you hurts. While the main squeeze was in the dark about the other relationship, the side chick/dude knew what was up from jump. Sure, it’s a difficult situation to be in once emotions get involved (and they always do eventually) but making stuff up is uncalled for, especially if it involves the police or child protective services.

X. Thou shalt not covet the main squeeze or what he/she has.
Don’t worry about what the main squeeze is doing or getting, because that has nothing to do with you. Just enjoy what little time you can get with your boo while he/she isn’t with the person they’re actually committed to. Of course their gift was bigger and better and they get all the holidays, because they the priority while you’re just a side chick/dude—deal with it.

Sooooo, what do you think? Passable or nah?

(Sex) CreepLife: Top Ten Best Pair Of Lips In Entertainment

Posted on November 19, 2012 by Butterfly

I have no real reason for searching google for the images you’re about to enjoy other than for my your visual pleasure. Incidentally, every single one of these women not only have beautifully shaped lips, they have beautiful eyes as well. Interesting correlation, isn’t it? At any rate, enjoy. Shout out to the CreepLifeMovement.

Zoe Saldana (Columbiana)

Rosario Dawson

Scarlett Johansson (The Avengers)

Monica Bellucci (Yes, The French Man’s wife in The Matrix Reloaded)

K.D. Aubert (Money Mike’s young girl in Friday After Next)

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(Sex/Dating) Top Ten Best And Worst Cities For Dating

Posted on November 14, 2012 by Butterfly

AXE Body Spray, along with Sperling’s Best Places, recently conducted a study on the best and worst places to date. The study targeted single people ages 18-24 and variety of “dating” venues such as coffee shops, bowling alleys, and the like. Below is the top ten worst and best places they found our of a total 80 major cities researched.

Best Cities for Dating

1. Austin, TX
2. Colorado Springs, CO
3. San Diego, CA
4. Raleigh/Durham, NC
5. Seattle, WA
6. Charleston, SC
7. Norfolk, VA
8. Ann Arbor, MI
9. Springfield, MA
10.Honolulu, HI

Worst Cities for Dating

1. Kansas City, MO
2. Wichita, KS
3. Minneapolis-St. Paul, MN
4. Detroit, MI
5. Louisville, KY
6. Greensboro/Winston-Salem, NC
7. Atlanta, GA
8. Pittsburgh, PA
9. Houston, TX
10. Charlotte, NC

There is no way I’m believing you go on the fabled $200 dates if you’re from anyone of these “worst” cities, though. I need to see receipts.

Shouts out to the Pride of the Lowcountry, Charleston, SC for making a solid entry at number 6 on the best cities list! I don’t know if I agree with Charlotte, NC coming in at number 10 on the worst list though! Recount!

To check out the complete list of all 80 cities in the AXE study go here AXE Body Spray and Best Places Complete Study

(Sex) Signs You’re Not The Only One (By: Butterfly)

Posted on November 8, 2012 by Butterfly

…trying to be the only one. That’s how Drake puts it right? Every felt like maybe you were living in a Drake verse or one failed date away from a Weeknd trilogy? Below are some ways you maybe, could be, not most definitely but there’s a possibility that you may or may not be the only one trying to be his/her only one. That sound vague enough for you? Good, because the actions that those type of people are willing to do to stay uncommitted are pretty vague, too. Below I have listed a few things that I may or may not have seen in my dating life: some I’ve allegedly committed and others I may or may not have experienced. Enjoy, and if you see an action that looks familiar then a) do not react b) react c) recover d) move on.

- Takes him/her too long or its starting to take longer for a return text. This could easily be explained away as they were simply busy. That would be an adequate excuse if at the beginning of the conversation it was explicitly said they weren’t busy. Cover up or really just too busy to talk? Hmmm

- Comes over to hang out but leaves his/her phone a) face down on the table the entire visit, b) on silent, c) “forgotten” in the car, d) on airplane mode

- Never allows you to operate their phone unsupervised. Yes, I do mean unsupervised. Ever asked to borrow their phone and they dial the number then hand it to you while waiting oh so patiently at your elbow until you’re done? Yep. Supervision.

- Owns more than one phone but you only ever physically see the main line. OR. Owns more than one phone and has no reasonable explanation as to why. Acceptable reasons include: Job supplied phone or a business line for a legitimate self-employed business. Unacceptable: Baby mama hotline “so she don’t bother you with her nagging.” *rolls eyes*

- Overnight visits, early morning departures. If you’re invited over to spend the night chances are you’ll probably have to be up and out by 9am, 10am at the latest due to job, class, appointment, etc. This is fine IF that’s not the only time they invite you over. If you’re seeing the bed and then the door, time is not important; you’re still being had.

- His/Her friends have never met you. OR. They have met you but they always have that smirk on their face. You know the one that says “I know something you don’t know.”

- Avoids popular spots with you. The two of you go out on the town and eat at obscure restaurants or see the early shows at the movie theaters the weekend after a new release. Strategy. Its cool, though; maybe he/she doesn’t like crowds.

- Public Displays of Affection: Gives you dap instead of a hug if you guys happen to meet in a social setting full of his/her peers. Awkward.

- Lastly, One word responses to your texts about your “relationship.” Nothing says platonic relationship better than responding “okay” or “cool” to a question that should have ended with him/her knocking at your door asking you to reconsider. Do yourself a favor, if you suggest taking a break because “you’re not ready” or you “just want to see how they would react” and he/she replies “okay” or “cool” refer back to the other tips I gave you in this post: a) do not react b) react c) recover d) move on.

(Sex) Old Dog, New Tricks: Positions You’ll Love To Try

Posted on November 3, 2012 by Butterfly

Don’t ever say you can’t teach a dog new tricks! Below are a couple ways you can spice up an old trick in the bedroom. You’re welcome.

First position calls for the woman to lay on her back with her hips on the edge of the bed, kitchen table, kitchen counter (you get the picture) and the man enters her from standing position. I know this sounds like a pap smear position so to keep it kinky she can place her legs on his shoulders and tilt that ~~ass~~ bottom upwards. This position allows for cervical stimulation with deep penetration that can produce some pretty intense vaginal and uterine orgasms. If tickling the G-Spot is more her cup of tea then try a more shallow stroke. I know, old trick for the old heads but kinky twist is what surface you’ll try it on next.

Here’s a kinky twist on a personal favorite of mine. First, start off in missionary position. Once a man ~~get in them guts~~ penetrates a woman deeply, he allows her to bring her legs together between his. He then shifts his weight slightly forward so that the shaft of his penis is creating firm pressure and friction on her clitoris as he moves. This works very well for women that prefer to have clitoral stimulation during penetration to reach an intense orgasm. Put away your fingers, fellas, work them abdominals.

Fellas, your girl ever reached back and (cough cough) encircled the base of your penis with her thumb and pointer finger? Well, there’s a reason that this move increases your, and ultimately her, pleasure. Forming a ring around the base of the penis pulls the skin on the shaft tight which exposes the nerves endings. Exposed nerve endings create more sensitivity for him (increasing pleasure for him) and a longer erection (definitely more pleasure for her). Try it out… if anything you can can get off seeing her arch her back to get a grip.

Try those little twists and I’ll bet he/she will call you the next morning. Until next time… cuck fondoms.

Butterfly

(Sex) Sex Is Good…For Your Health

Posted on October 25, 2012 by Butterfly

For the main act of intercourse, most calorie-burning estimates range from 100 to 200 calories. Adding foreplay, orgasming and a couple other activities turns it up a notch. Here are a couple of examples of how you can drop calories while you drop your load.

Kissing- You can burn anywhere from one to five calories a minute when you kiss.A full out, no holds barred, sloppy session of exchanging saliva can use up to 85 calories/hour. No, no one’s saying you have to kiss for an hour. I’m just trying to give the guys stuck with ~~blue balls~~ making out some positive reinforcement.

Foreplay- Foreplay, fooling around, play-fighting, play wrestling, fake football catches; all of these scenarios equal about 25calories burned per 15minutes. So, fellas, the ladies are testing your heart as well as your resolve when they play hard to get. Reward her for thinking so selflessly; get in the game, Work That Body.

Massages- (yesssssss, my personal favorite) Even though massages are an easy and totally ~~obvious~~ innoncent way to ~~get the juices flowing~~ start up the old sex drive, it actually has a bigger purpose. For every hour of massage you can potentially burn up to 80calories. The longer and deeper the massage, the better the se… I mean, the more relaxed and calories you burn. Heh

Dancing- Yeah, gurl, throw on that Beyonce playlist and Dance For That Man. I don’t know many men who perform strip teases (or many women who enjoy seeing men gyrate in skimpy…nevermind, I digress) so this one is strictly for the ladies. For every shake, shimmy and booty pop you can lose 170 calories or more! It’s a win-win situation: He gets aroused, you lose weight. Or you guys can go out dancing at a nightclub; however, this is more fun.

Orgasm- The big O, the OH. sound, the speechless moment, the muscles rapidly clenching and releasing sensation…the orgasm. Even after completing all the other activities you can still stand burn more…60 to 100 calories that is. The more feeling and time you put into the act, the more orga… I mean calories, you stand to burn.

Happy Working-It Out, people.

(Sex) Pic: This Chic Is Givin’ Out Free Hugs? I’ll Take One!

Posted on October 11, 2012 by DJ B-LORD

(Sex) $200 Dates: Myth or Misconception (By Butterfly)

Posted on October 9, 2012 by Butterfly

First off, lets just call it what it is. A $200 – $500 – $2000 (and etc) date is nothing more than a show of power. The amount may increase but the motive remains the same. The male is asserting his dominance or his “place” as the head. By spending X amount of dollars on a date men are saying “I’m in control.” That’s it. Control. That’s what this whole song and dance is about. The alpha male’s show of power and an assertion of control. There are exceptions to this but we will get to that later in the post.

The $200 date is, also, a test for women. Can you handle the man being in control? Are you the type to argue for the right to pay for the date? Can you sit back and “allow” the man to simply BE the man? Can you handle that type of money/culture being displayed? How you respond to it all IS being highly scrutinized and catalogued for later analysis, trust me. Just know it’s not all about the money; walk into that date counting dimes and the you’ve already lost. The game is chess, not checkers.

I want to start off by tackling certain myths that seems to follow this topic at every debate. First is the “TwitterHoney” or “BadBitch” myth. Apparently, it is believed that only a certain caliber (read beautiful) women experience expensive dates. This is simply not true. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. If someone can knock up and wife the fugly knocked kneed chick down the block; then worthiness is a matter of personal opinion. Apparently, SOMEONE thinks she’s dope enough to spill his seed into her; why not $200 dates? We have ~~hoodrats~~ uncouth females experiencing these types of dates more than you self-proclaimed “dope chicks” like to admit. There’s someone for everyone and undoubtably there’s a dope boy out there willing to spend that bread on his baby mama, wifey and side chick just to keep the peace and/or keep up with appearances everyday. Everyday. “TwitterHoney”/ “BadBitch” you’re not dope because of your social standing. You’re dope because some dude thought enough of you to hang that title on you. Sad, but true. Continue reading →

Sex With Your Ex? By Butterfly

Posted on September 30, 2012 by Butterfly

There’s no easy way to say this, so I’m just going to say it. Once you break up you can’t break her back. Guys, mostly, tend to have this hope that once they’ve broken it off with their crazy— but great sex having— ex; they can still engage in sexual acts. Sexual acts, FYI, includes fellatio. However, this is not true. We’ve all heard the old adage “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.” That’s just a short phrase for saying Women are emotional creatures; Men are creatures sans emotions. The vagina and emotions are (until a certain point) linked. The point in time in which the vagina and feelings are rid of each other is after menopause. Don’t debate me on this; and don’t debate with a woman in love, in lust, or in menopause. The hormones will back up her feelings every single time.

You cannot have sex with your ex, fellas. Not unless you want her to think you’re back together and jacks you up in the club for bagging a chick in her presence. Unannounced visits at your house, calling up your mother, expecting gifts on her birthday and Christmas. The list of possible ~~bullshit~~ expectations goes on and on. Once you break her heart Continue reading →

(News) Kanye’s Lawyers Strike Back

Posted on September 23, 2012 by Butterfly

The plot thickens for Kanye as his lawyer issues a takedown notice in response to rumors that porn companies have been shopping his alleged sex tape with a Kim Kardashian lookalike. The tape is said to have been stolen from Kanye’s computer thereby providing the basis of this takedown order.

Kanye’s lawyer Lisa M. Buckley of Pryor Cashman wrote: “Be advised that the Screen Shot, as well as the Tape from which the Screen Shot was taken, were illegally obtained and believed to have been stolen from Mr. West’s computer.”

“Your posting, advertising, marketing, displaying and otherwise disseminating the stolen Screen Shot and/or other materials on the Tape constitute actionable violations of Mr. West’s rights of privacy and publicity.”

“We hereby demand that you: (1) immediately cease and desist from posting, advertising, marketing, displaying and disseminating the illegally obtained Screen Shot of Mr. West.”

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(Sex) Top Ten Reasons She’s Not Gonna Call You Again (By Butterfly)

Posted on September 13, 2012 by Butterfly

You meet a girl, take her on a couple dates, and you even spent the fabled $200 on one date just to impress her. She seems to be interested but suddenly she stops accepting your phone calls or responding to texts. You believe yourself to be a good looking guy with okay credit, make decent money, health insurance and even a great dresser. So why no play? I don’t really know what she was thinking, but I have a few ideas.

In no particular order, here are my top ten reasons as to why she’s just not that into you.

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Rihanna’s New Tattoo-1 Chris Brown’s-0

Posted on September 11, 2012 by Butterfly

God Bless Rihanna’s tattoo artist. This tattoo of the Egyptian Goddess Isis was tatted underneath Rihanna’s breasts as tribute to her recently deceased grandmother. I don’t know if Her grandmother is pleased but millions of fans all over are.

Twitter is ablaze with theories as to who or what Chris Brown’s latest tattoo symbolizes. Many say it’s Rihanna’s battered face. Others claim its a Mexican inspired Dia De Los Muertos. Chris’s reps say “it’s some woman.” Okaaaay. Tell us what you think. Hit the jump for pics.

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(Sex) Hilarious Unintentional Erotic Pics In Sports (By Butterfly)

Posted on September 10, 2012 by Butterfly

DON’T STOP! POP THAT! POP THAT! WHATCHU TWERKIN’ WIT?!

Some of the most funniest moments in sports are not orchestrated and definitely not purposefully sexual. Here are a few of my favorite pics in ~~“I slipped and fell on his d*ck”~~ these wild moments in sports.

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