To Submit or Not to, There should be no question.
Submit: to yield oneself to the authority or will of another; surrender.
Submissive: submitting to other(s) will
Submission: the condition of being humble, compliant or submissive.
I’m almost sure I probably lost half of the women in that opening statement and all I did was state definitions. Sadly, most women probably feel that to allow a man to “exert” (yassss) his “will” (Yup) over her makes them weak. In fact, some females only engage in fellatio (read head) because they are in control and enjoy making a man (cough cough) vulnerable… at least until he orgasms, that is.
But, can you, oh dominant woman, can you submit? I believe you can. You like a man that can take charge of the situation, don’t you? Or In hoodrat speak: You want a BAWSE don’tcha?
Why not in the bedroom? No thinking needed; which is a good thing cuz half of you think so much you forget to feel. smh.
“But what of he makes me do something I don’t like?”
Hard Limits are sexual acts you will not do; non-negotiable.
Soft Limits are sexual acts your inner freak wants to do but fears being CALLED a freak so you don’t do it. Sounds interesting don’t it?
Creep or not, Brian McKnight might be on to something.
Hit the jump for acts considered submissive…
Yep… cooking and cleaning are considered submissive acts.
Face it; Submission is the new kinky.
Don’t believe me, then ask your partner what’s his fantasy. I bet 90% of men would say nothing about YOU being in control. Then, look down… I’m sure he’s “at attention.”
Think about it this way; All those “hoeish thoughts you have from time to time; here’s your outlet. Best part is you’re only doing what you’re told; fulfilling HIS fantasies… right? Riiiiiiight.
You gotta start somewhere, baby girl. Just ask Amber ‘Yeezy Taught Me’ Rose.
Respectfully Submitted, SIR.