(Sex) To Submit Or Not To, There Should Be No Question (by Butterfly)

To Submit or Not to, There should be no question.

Submit: to yield oneself to the authority or will of another; surrender.

Submissive: submitting to other(s) will

Submission: the condition of being humble, compliant or submissive.

I’m almost sure I probably lost half of the women in that opening statement and all I did was state definitions. Sadly, most women probably feel that to allow a man to “exert” (yassss) his “will” (Yup) over her makes them weak. In fact, some females only engage in fellatio (read head) because they are in control and enjoy making a man (cough cough) vulnerable… at least until he orgasms, that is.
But, can you, oh dominant woman, can you submit? I believe you can. You like a man that can take charge of the situation, don’t you? Or In hoodrat speak: You want a BAWSE  don’tcha?
Why not in the bedroom? No thinking needed; which is a good thing cuz half of you think so much you forget to feel. smh.
“But what of he makes me do something I don’t like?”
Hard Limits are sexual acts you will not do; non-negotiable.
Soft Limits are sexual acts your inner freak wants to do but fears being CALLED a freak so you don’t do it. Sounds interesting don’t it?
Creep or not, Brian McKnight might be on to something.


You’re already submitting and don’t even know it.

Hit the jump for acts considered submissive…

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(Sex) Tips For Guys On ‘Eating Out’ (Ladies…Are These Tips True?)

Here’s some tips I found based on women’s advice on eating the cat.  Ladies, are these tips true? Accurate?? Read below the pic…

Tongue to lips

Any licking, gentle sucking or all-around moisture from the mouth to the vaginal entrance, the labia (lips) or the clitoris will surely make you popular with your flavor of the evening.

When you begin to give her oral sex, it’s important to start slowly. Women like it when a man takes the time to Continue reading